The term ‘handling business’ means different things to different people. Business in general to some people means making money. People that go into business with the goal and expectation of making money often end up working for someone else or fail repeatedly in their ventures. People who go into business because of the love for what they are doing or to make a difference, often become very successful and very wealthy as a result. But that doesn’t occur overnight. It is a gradual process that comes about through learning and experience. It also requires surrounding yourself with people who can assist, having perseverance and proper planning among other things. Therefore, it can be said that whether or not a person is successful in business is greatly determined by the motivation to begin a business. It is then heightened by their efforts to remain in business. If you have an idea, it doesn’t mean it will be instantaneously profitable. Many people get involved in or develop get rich quick schemes. Some of them actually make money, but they don’t have any longevity. Either because the scheme is illegal, immoral or it’s just not sustainable through economic changes.
Handling business to some people also means taking care of their responsibilities. Whether or not a person is capable of taking care of themselves is often a factor that determines if they will have success in business and in life. If a person is heavily reliant on others for their survival or well being, we often will view that person as being immature and incapable of handling their business. Responsibility is a huge weight for a human being to carry. It is also a mark of a person’s character or lack thereof. Often people prefer to make others responsible for their circumstances and failures. They believe that this will exonerate them from any repercussions that may arise. However, they are quick to take responsibility for success, if it comes. Being responsible is more than about claiming the idea or the potential profits. Being responsible requires taking that idea seriously and investing the time, energy and effort into nurturing the idea until it is successful. That isn’t to say that a person who doesn’t take responsibility can’t learn to. They actually can. Unfortunately, they usually learn to be responsible through traumatic occurrences resulting from being irresponsible.
Over the last fifteen years of my life I have endured a great deal of responsibility, in business and personally. I had my son when I was eighteen years old; I was a homeowner at nineteen and was working in Corporate America. In business, I have co-owned a general contracting company, I’ve been a Realtor, and I’ve been a union steward. Not only have I had to be responsible for myself at a young age, but I’ve had to be responsible for many other people as well. It has taught me a great deal. Every lesson wasn’t easy or enjoyable, but I’ve taken what I’ve learned and invested it into myself and my future success. Many people assume that I’m egotistical so I just woke up one day and decided that I would become Super Woman. The truth is that I was given the name because of what I’ve survived. People have referred to me as “super” in one capacity or another for many years. I didn’t decide to become Super Woman; I already was Super Woman, I just didn’t know it until two years ago.
To achieve success as an entrepreneur there are a few things a person needs to consider. You need to have an idea, but you also need to have motivation that is beyond making money. You need to handle your business personally because your personal life has a “trickle over” effect into your business life. You need a team of people who will enhance what you lack, won’t just tell you what you want to hear, will tell you when you are wrong or foolish, and won’t take advantage of your dreams. Super Woman is a company, a woman and a brand, but there’s a team of people that help to make it possible. My team of people may be different from others, but they are people whom I know I can trust and I have built a relationship with them that goes beyond business. I don’t take advantage of them and they don’t take advantage of me. They know that my motivation to be successful goes beyond making money and they help to preserve that motivation. They never force their desires on me and they are reliable and available when I need them to be. They have individual abilities and viewpoints that enhance what I possess and make up for what I lack. They are my Super Team and no matter how much money I make, their support is a lot more valuable to me.
Once you can take responsibility for your own failures and success, you become an entrepreneur. Once you become an entrepreneur, you become powerful. Once you become powerful, you become humbled; because to whom much is given, much is required. Entrepreneurship is a journey to humility. Be thankful for the journey; it is a blessing. Handle your business.